A group of fwoggies were hopping contentedly
through the woods, going about their fwoggy business, when two of them fell
into a deep pit. All of the other fwoggies gathered around the pit to see
what could be done to help their companions. When they saw how deep the pit
was, the rest of the dismayed group agreed that it was hopeless and told the
two fwoggies in the pit that they should prepare themselves for their fate,
because they were as good as dead.
Unwilling to accept this terrible fate, the
two fwoggies began to jump with all of their might. Some of the fwoggies
shouted into the pit that it was hopeless, and that the two fwoggies
wouldn't be in that situation if they had been more careful, more obedient
to the fwoggy rules, and more responsible. The other fwoggies continued
sorrowfully shouting that they should save their energy and give up, since
they were already as good as dead. The two fwoggies continued jumping as
hard as they could, and after several hours of desperate effort were quite
weary.
Finally, one of the fwoggies took heed to the
calls of his fellows. Spent and disheartened, he quietly resolved himself to
his fate, lay down at the bottom of the pit, and died as the others looked
on in helpless grief. The other fwoggie continued to jump with every ounce
of energy he had, although his body was wracked with pain and he was
completely exhausted. His companions began anew, yelling for him to accept
his fate, stop the pain and just die. The weary fwoggie jumped harder and
harder and, wonder of wonders, finally leapt so high that he sprang from the
pit.
Amazed, the other fwoggies celebrated his
miraculous freedom and then gathering around him asked, "Why did you
continue jumping when we told you it was impossible?" Reading their lips,
the astonished fwoggie explained to them that he was deaf, and that when he
saw their gestures and shouting, he thought they were cheering him on. What
he had perceived as encouragement inspired him to try harder and to succeed
against all odds.
This simple story contains a powerful lesson.
The biblical book of Proverbs says, "There is death and life in the power of the
tongue." Your encouraging words can lift someone up and help them make it
through the day. Your destructive words can cause deep wounds; they may be
the weapons that destroy someone's desire to continue trying or even their
life. Your destructive, careless word can diminish someone in the eyes of
others, destroy their influence and have a lasting impact on the way others
respond to them.
Be careful what you say. Speak life to (and
about) those who cross your path. There is enormous
power in words. If you have words of kindness, praise or encouragement
speak them now to, and about, others. Listen to your heart and respond.
Someone, somewhere, is waiting for your words. Be wise, make them kind and
encouraging words, always.